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How long does it takes to orgasm when you finger yourself?
I've never been able to orgasm using my fingers, or maybe I'm just impatient, I give up at the 2nd minute. So I was wondering, how long does it take for you to reach the climax point?
July 6th, 2011 - 16:03
For most girls and women, somewhere between 4 and 6 minutes… but some take much more than half an hour and some easily can come in less than 20 seconds and come 5 times or more in less than 15 minutes.
Vaginal penetration alone ("fingering") isn’t a very effective way to have orgasms for most women, because the vagina isn’t the place where women’s most direct sexual pleasure comes from. The clitoris is.
I don’t suppose you’ve ever been permitted to learn the truth about all the people that masturbate… but it might interest you to know that infants masturbate (often to orgasm if they do it at all and – rarely – even during the last week or two before they’re born)… that by the age of 12, almost 1/3 of all girls have been masturbating to orgasm at least occasionally for half their lives or more… that at age 15 it’s 2/3 of them who are doing it regularly (many of those are doing it more than once a day)… or that by the age of 20, more than 80% of women are doing the same – regardless of whether they’ve ever had intercourse. Even very old people do it.
Everyone can (and everyone deserves to) enjoy the pleasure of orgasm, including everyone who chooses to enjoy it alone instead of (or in addition to) having sex with someone else.
Masturbation is having sex with the only person you’ll ever meet who knows *exactly* what you feel and what you like, even if that changes every second.
I can’t tell you every step there is to have an orgasm… every girl and woman is different, and it would take way longer for me to type it all out than it would for you to give yourself one… but one thing you can do to find out is check out these webpages:
http://www.clitical.com/female-masturbation/masturbation-basics.php
http://www.clitical.com/female-masturbation/masturbation-techniques.php
Read the pages all the way through, and try some of the things suggested. Take your time (it might take a whole afternoon the first time), and just enjoy learning what feels best for you. Sooner or later, you’ll have an orgasm, and they get better each time if you’re one of those lucky girls who can have them again and again.
An orgasm is all the things you feel and all the things that happen with your body at the peak of sexual arousal and pleasure. It’s a reflex we’re all born with (just like knee jerks and sneezes) that our bodies have in response to sexual stimulation. You will *definitely* know when you have one. There’s nothing else anywhere in human experience that feels that way.
It can take a girl or woman anywhere from a few seconds to a couple of hours to reach orgasm. Both of these are pretty unusual but perfectly normal, and anything in between is just fine… and most can get there in much less than 10 minutes when they masturbate.
Just before orgasm, you might have a feeling a bit like you have to pee, but it’s not quite the same, and when your orgasm first happens, there’ll be a very strong (sometimes intense and *powerful*), warm and sometimes tingly feeling that spreads from your clitoris to your vagina and then through your whole lower body. Then very quickly your clitoris, your vagina, your crotch muscles and your butt-hole will squeeze and pulse a few times while that feeling spreads all over you.
During all this, your heart will beat *very* quickly, your toes will probably curl, you might feel like you need to hold your breath or like you have to breathe really fast, your body will want to tense up and might jerk or shake or shiver, and you might make some noises (grunts, gasps, groans or cries) that you can’t really control. You might "squirt" or "ejaculate" a lot of fluid from your urethra (don’t worry, it’s not pee). The physical and emotional pleasure that you’ll feel everywhere at the same time is just about the best feeling a human body can have.
(Everything you "might" feel or do above isn’t always going to happen… some orgasms are much less overwhelming than just *very* pleasureable.)
As that feeling becomes more gentle and starts to go away (after maybe 5 to 20 seconds), your whole body will begin to relax, your skin will flush pinker (especially over your chest) and you might feel sort of like having a nap… or like just lying there and letting your mind drift… or even like doing it again (and again… etc) right away.
It’s not often, but it *can* happen sometimes that there’ll be no interruption at all between several orgasms in a row, and it can feel like one single orgasm… intense physical pleasure and whole-body tension and release that can last anywhere from 30 or 40 seconds to several minutes.
Have fun with it and don’t worry. Masturbating is normal and healthy, and learning what pleases you sexually is good for you… especially because you’ll know what to tell (better yet, to show) your man about how to please you when you eventually decide you’re ready to have sex.
July 6th, 2011 - 16:03
Don’t necessarily ‘finger’ yourself, but concentrate more on your clit.
I rub it really fast and I will orgasm in 15-30 seconds.
July 6th, 2011 - 16:03
why not just ask your b/f to do it? you’ll climax in no time.
July 6th, 2011 - 16:03
Every one is different. Some orgasm really quickly while others take longer. It takes me longer. And are you doing it right? the more pressure and the quicker you do it the faster it should happen…or maybe you have had it and didn’t realize what it was.
July 6th, 2011 - 16:03
Fingering doesn’t get you anywhere. The only reason people finger is because it just gets them horny. But some people have really sensitive clitorises and can get an orgasm just by doing that.
Try rubbing your clitoris with two hands and push down a little bit and kind of rock yourself a little bit. Or try humping on a pillow… or try using the shower head and aiming for the clitoris. Don’t aim for the vagina–it hurts and it isn’t good for it. You can also try a vibrator too. Never use fruit or vegetables. Its bad for your vagina! Especially if they haven’t been washed. You don’t get an orgasm, maybe a little horny. But its unsafe! If sticking things up there try just using your finger. And any objects you use to masturbate–always wash!
It can take up seconds to minutes, to an hour! It all depends on the person and what that person does to make themself feel good.
July 6th, 2011 - 16:03
its different for every girl