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How do I get over my fear of losing my virginity?
I'm 17 and still a virgin. I don't have a problem with sex or anything, for some reason I'm just afraid I won't be able to get a boner or I'll cum too fast or something. I don't really have a problem getting a boner when I jack off and it usually takes me about 15-30 minutes to cum, I'm just kind of afraid of the unknown. How do I get over it?
July 9th, 2011 - 22:19
Don’t over-think or over-complicate things! Sex is supposed to be an emotional connection and in the moment. If you worry too much about not being able to perform then it’s more likely to happen. If you let things happen as they are going to without worrying you shouldn’t have any problems. And, if the person you do decide to have your first time with has feelings for you beyond just the physical attraction, he/she would understand whatever happens. I wish you the best of luck with your first time and I’m sure all will go over fine.
July 9th, 2011 - 22:19
get some pussy that’ll help ur fear
July 9th, 2011 - 22:19
Do your best to find an understanding woman. If you can find a female virgin, she won’t know what to expect, so that’ll help. Or find one who hasn’t been with more than one or two guys. And make sure she is nice and understanding.
I’ll be honest, there are some women out there that will get angry if you c*m too fast or can’t get hard right away, so stay away from those women. Those women tend to have had sex alot though.
That is why finding an inexperienced woman is important for you.
July 9th, 2011 - 22:19
i was the same way because i didnt want to look like a looser if i didnt know what to do or i bust to fast..you just gotta find a women who will understand because eventually your gonna have sex