10Jul/11Off
How can i stop being jealous of other women?
I feel so jealous of other women...Not any in particular. I have low self esteem and I'm a pretty jealous person. How can I stop feeling so jealous of other people's beauty? I feel like I have none myself. I've thought about getting colored eye contacts, but that looks fake...and I can't dye my hair a lighter color b/c that would look fake too. So, does anyone have any tips or advice on how to stop being so jealous? Thanks you!
July 10th, 2011 - 05:34
all women (that of course includes you) are beautiful. feel beautiful and you become beautiful. remember that just because YOU THINK someone is more attractive than you does not mean they are superior to you.
July 10th, 2011 - 05:34
go see a therapist.
July 10th, 2011 - 05:34
I used to feel like this all the time. I’ve gotten a lot better about it, but it’s still kind of hard.
My advice would be to find one thing that you really like about yourself. For me, I’ve got freckles. I know a lot of people hate having freckles, but I think it just makes me look unique. But it can be anything for you. And every morning look in the mirror and find that one thing that you really love about yourself, instead of all the things you really hate. And if during the day you see someone that you start to get jealous of, just think of that one thing that you’ve got and that she doesn’t.
Don’t get down on yourself, accentuate your uniqueness, instead of trying to look like you think people want you to look. When you start doing this, you’ll feel more confident, which truly makes you look more beautiful :)
July 10th, 2011 - 05:34
You have to love yourself first. If you don’t see anything about yourself, then you are a hopeless case. All of us are given good things about ourselves. We have to find it, make it better, and be proud with it. It could be a talent that because we always look at others, we seem to not know we have talent if not better than others, as least something we can be proud of we have.
It could be good physical appearance, long legs, good smart brain, being good in sports, good singing voice, good poet, talent about easy making friends, good on story telling, nice long hair. Though not all good things can be found in one place, person, or in a day, but for sure we all have something good about ourselves. If you can find all good talent in one person, that my dear, is who we called God. We are not God, and no one could be. And we should really just love what we have and be good to ourselves.